My dear Dulcinea!
We were in Transylvania over the weekend with most of my family. We left early on Friday and arrived home late on Monday. We were in Ojtoztelep.
Ojtoztelep (also Ojtoz, Romanian Oituz) is a village in Covasna County, Transylvania, Romania. Its old German name was Ujtos. This settlement is located 20 km east of Kézdivásárhely, at the eastern exit of the Ojtozi Gorge, one of the most important mountain gorges of the Eastern Carpathians, in the valley of the Ojtoz Stream. The Hármashalom monument located here was erected by Hungarian soldiers in 1942. On September 7, 2014, members of the Hatvannégy Vármegye Youth Movement from Kézdivásárhely erected a double cross in the middle of the monument.
Sixteen of us went here. We celebrated Dad’s 70th birthday and Mom and Dad’s 50th wedding anniversary here. Dad was even sent a video from Africa:
In addition to my parents, two of my three siblings came, in full force. Plus my two daughters and their two friends, and my older brother’s older daughter’s boyfriend. So there were sixteen of us.
Four of the sixteen of us were single. My younger brother’s two kindergarten-aged sons couldn’t be expected to have come here with a partner. My younger brother’s younger daughter’s partner didn’t come. So I was the only one of the adults who was single.
That’s why I thought of you, my dear Dulcinea, a few times. I’ve known for a while now that I’m living a time of self-care. This also includes the fact that I’m only spending 123 days in this country, so I won’t even look for you in Hungary anymore. I also know that one day, at an unexpected moment, we’ll meet. I just have to wait patiently until we see each other. I also feel at peace when I think of you. I’m not really looking forward to the day, which may never come.
Anyway, I missed you this weekend! For the first time in months, I felt like a hug would be nice! It would have been nice if we had fallen asleep next to each other! This weekend was definitely a part of the fact that everyone around me was with their partner. I longed for you in your shapeless form, your faceless face, and your unperceptible scent.
Nevertheless, it was a very good weekend, even without you. And today, this message reached me from the pen of the already quoted Rea Todorovits:
It’s worth waiting for someone who will never lie to you.
It’s worth waiting for someone you can trust, and no matter what happens, you know and feel that they’re by your side.
It’s worth waiting for someone who will never let you down, who will stand by you even when the sun turns into a storm.
It’s worth waiting for someone who puts you first and doesn’t sacrifice you for them.
Wait for someone who wants to know what your desire is, what your biggest dream is, and who will hold your hand even when they see your failures.
Wait for someone who not only says they want to be a part of your life, but proves it to you every day.
Wait for someone who laughs with you, but never at you.
Wait for someone who you can put your heart in because you know they will never live with it again. Someone who stands in front of you when you need to be protected and behind you when the sun shines on you.
Wait for someone who makes you strong and who draws strength from you. Wait for someone who is not ashamed to be weak next to you and who sits next to you when Life sends you to the floor.
Wait for someone who loves you unconditionally and who you see as the same.
Wait for someone who understands that this is not about giving you the world, but about feeling like there can be no one else in it but you. It’s worth waiting for, because it can’t be otherwise.
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I’ll wait for you patiently!