I was quite excited about the AI-powered matchmaking dinner on board Nomad Cruise 14. The name sounded pretty exciting. Until I got more information about it, all sorts of funny solutions came to my mind, thinking about how I would have handled this event if I had had to implement it. Fortunately, however, this task was not entrusted to me.
When I received the email two days before departure with the link to register for the dinner, I immediately started filling out the questionnaire.
Then I mentioned the dinner in several posts. It was planned for the evening of the “Nomad Cruise Day 2nd – Sea Day” Then it almost happened on the evening of the “Nomad Cruise Day 3rd – Sea Day”, which then finally reached its climax on the evening of the “Nomad Cruise Day 4th – Palermo”
So, the story is already known. But, since I saved the questions before leaving, and since I’ve told you so much about this dinner, here’s a reminder of what questions the AI used to find the right one. Now, where it found…
And, all joking and laughing aside: Now that I’ve read these questions for the second time, it occurred to me that it doesn’t matter who put together this set of questions. There was an assumption among us that the set of questions itself was put together with the help of AI. Now I think that it doesn’t matter at all. The essential questions of a relationship are also included in this set of questions. I’m not saying that you have to fill out this questionnaire on the first date, but perhaps several elements of these many questions will naturally come up during conversations that explore each other. You can definitely get ideas from these questions.
AI Nomad Matchmaking on Nomad Cruise 14
This survey will help match you with a compatible romantic partner at our conference. It takes about 7 minutes to complete.
Your responses will only be used for the matchmaking algorithm and will be deleted after the event. Your match will be sitting at your table during the activity, but their identity will only be revealed when both of you consent.
Please answer honestly – there are no right or wrong answers. We’re looking to understand your authentic preferences to create meaningful connections between nomads who understand this unique lifestyle.
Which relationship structure resonates with you?
- Monogamous
- Polyamorous/Ethically non-monogamous
- Open to different structures
- Still exploring
What are you hoping to find through this matchmaking experience?
- Long-term committed partnership
- Meaningful connection with potential for commitment
- Travel companion with romantic potential
- Let connections develop naturally without expectations
How long have you been living nomadically?
- Less than 1 year
- 1–3 years
- 3–5 years
- 5+ years
Your typical pace of travel is:
- Fast-paced (new location every few weeks)
- Moderate (changing locations every 1–3 months)
- Slow (staying 3+ months in each place)
- Variable depending on circumstances
- I have a homebase now
In a relationship, your ideal travel arrangement would be:
- Always traveling together
- Same general location but with independence
- Periods together interspersed with solo travel
- Primarily separate travel with regular meetups
When beginning a new relationship, you typically prefer:
- Diving deep quickly
- Taking things slowly
- Focusing on shared activities
- It varies
When you’re going through a difficult time, you usually:
- Seek support and talk
- Process independently
- Keep busy
- Depend on the situation
Select the three values most important to you in relationships:
- Independence/autonomy
- Emotional security/stability
- Growth and personal development
- Adventure and new experiences
- Deep emotional intimacy
- Trust and reliability
- Intellectual connection
- Shared purpose/vision
- Sexual Chemistry
Your ideal level of independence within a relationship is:
- Highly independent
- Balanced independence
- Mostly intertwined lives
- Depends on relationship
Your financial approach within relationships tends to be:
- Clearly separated finances
- Shared expenses for joint activities
- Mostly combined with personal allowances
- Completely shared finances
Which best describes your approach to personal development?
- Actively pursuing growth
- Regular self-reflection
- Learning through relationships
- Natural evolution
Regarding your attachment patterns in relationships:
- Aware and working on it
- Notice patterns but hard to change
- Haven’t thought about it
- Satisfied
When thinking about a future with a partner, you:
- Need a clear shared vision
- Prefer flexibility
- Balance planning and adaptability
- Focus on the present
Political views
- Liberal
- Conservative
- I dont care about politics
With the partner I am looking for now…
- We read books at night next to eachother in bed
- We hike , surf and sweat together
- We create business/ projects together
- We talk hours and hours about interesting stuff
- We are creating a family together
- We act like bunnies;)
What are your dealbreakers?
Religion
- Chatolic
- Spiritual (New Age)
- Buddhist
- Muslim
- Atheist
- Not really important for me
- Jewish
Party animal level ( 1 no party – 5 more party the better)
Describe a relationship dynamic where you’ve felt most comfortable and authentic:
What have you learned about yourself through past relationships that’s important for a potential partner to know?
What qualities or traits do you find yourself consistently attracted to in others?
What would make you feel secure and valued in a relationship while living nomadically?
Is there anything else you’d like potential matches to know about you?